living in extreme fear

living in extreme fear

lovingmotherof3 (guest) 09 Dec 2010 23:36

So I'm a wife and a mom of 3 young boys. I'm still in my 20's and I've just stopped living my life! I am in constant fear of 2012, I mean I actually suffer with anxiety and panic attacks on a daily basis since seeing on the History Channel about 2012. I am now suffering with mild deppression and I've quit working and on the urge of quitting school ( which I've put so much time and effort into) I even gone as far as taking my 10 yr old son out of school ( to homeschool, if I can even focus on teaching him anything) I spend my days researching 2012 and ways to survive any case scenario. I'm tired of living in this fear, and just when I start to show some improvment, It's still in the back of my mind. Looking up at the sun in the day or the stars at night don't help because it reminds me of Solar storms, meteor and so on. My family is suffering and my marriage, well let's just say I'm driving my own husband in the arms of someone els! The crazy thing is that it doesn't matter to me beacause I'm so scared that I just want to spend my last few years with my children and show them love. I have nightmares about all this stuff, so it seems more real to me. All the things that used to matter to me is gone. Nothing feels the same to me anymore. I just want my life back! Can anyone help me in any way?

Re: living in extreme fear

Rocksio 10 Dec 2010 02:31

I was having the same problem i couldn't focus at school i was always drawling flood maps an all sorts of stuff, when my teacher recognized what it was an she pulled me aside after class she told me all about 2012 an how everything i had been told was exploitations of the Mayan calendar with things it didn't say… relax really maybe see a Psychiatrist if u cant make it stop i cant make it stop either Every time i look at the clock an see 11:11 it still freaks me out even tho its not true.. please if u cant make it stop move somewhere you feel safer or if you cant do that.. i wouldn't recommenced it anyway.. possibly see a psychiatrist if you cant make it stop. Or talk to a doctor about exercising or taking Relaxing pills. Or join a club.. just read all the articles on this page an if that dose not help contact A Mayan scientist/Scholar that studies them today an back then. And then look up all Ur facts from CREDITABLE sources, And if u believe NASA is producing lies to the public contact non government controlled Facilities. And University's But really just take my word for it if you can. I you know you can! Just forget about all this an Move on with Ur life and just relax an enjoy Ur many years of life you have.

Re: living in extreme fear

Alene Y 10 Dec 2010 19:18

Hi lovingmother,
You should know that the Hysteria Channel had a change in management a few years ago. As a result of this, they decided to start showing sensationalistic nonsense in order to attract a larger audience. They are no longer a credible source. Also, their doomathons feature scientifically challenged authors spouting their impossible delusions, rather than scientists. No real scientist supports any of the 2012 claims. You really need to read the scientific facts here that absolutely refute all the 2012 nonsense. In addition, you should stop searching all the crackpot doomsday sites for information. They don't have information for you. They just want to sell you books and useless 2012 supplies. Fear sells, and they are exploiting that. Don't allow the fearmongers and con artists to destroy your life and those of your children. All the 2012 garbage has been recycled from previous failed hoaxes.
What you are doing isn't research, it is playing into the hands of the doomsayers and ruining your life. Please read here about the specific claims that have you worried and then ask questions if you need to. We're here to help you.

Re: living in extreme fear

obaeyens 11 Dec 2010 01:40

lovingmotherof3, why are you living in fear for something that is clearly a hoax to rip people of their money.

But I would advise you to write History Channel that they are the cause of your fear and depression and many people other people.
Sooner or later they might get sued for this.

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Re: living in extreme fear

obaeyens 11 Dec 2010 01:49

OK first stop going to 2012 sites. What you have is basically an addiction and I advise you to go to find professional help.

Second I am telling you is that none of any disaster or 2012 is true. It is all a big money scam thing.

Tomy (guest) 18 Dec 2010 16:58

Don't worrie. Some months ago i was scarred too. Not depressed, just scarred. And my fear was because i watched a National Geografear Channel documentary. The documentary said that the world will be destroyed in 2012. I was quite scared, but after a good search, I found that it was all a lie. This site, 2012hoax.org, helped a lot.
Therefore, it was obvious that the documentaries, not just the NatGeo, talking about 2012, are nothing scientific or even have a historical basis (speaking of Maya)
So don't worry. I recommend you read the texts of 2012hoax or other trusted sites as famsi.org (about the Maya) and nasa.gov (NASA website).

Good Luck!

lovingmotherof3 (guest) 11 Dec 2010 22:11

I've read the facts on this site and it does relieve a lot of my anxiety. Well as far as me having an addiction, I can't say I do, I just want true facts and ways to keep my family safe. Although I've read through all this, it will still take me a while to be normal (if ever) I will get through this and I think if I just visit this site more often and communicate with people of the same problem, it helps knowing I'm not the only one who's going through this. The so called History Channel sure does need to be takin down. I've looked at other people's story's and this is the most sad thing that any one would have to go through! Kids are suffering and I don't care how old you are, no one of any age should have to suffer in this fear!!!!! There needs to be more done, I'm not saying I'm gonna be the to do it (especially in my sate of mind for the time being)

CaneLaz 12 Dec 2010 01:09

What you're going through is very tough, but I think that you're on the right track. As a young parent myself, I've felt similar to what you've had cross your mind in regards to 2012. It doesn't matter how much you know sometimes, it just seems so real. In the end, there is no reason to fear 2012. There isn't even a lick of scientific credibility to these so-called theories. Just don't give up and keep on loving those kiddos yours!

Take care and stay positive,

lovingmotherof3 (guest) 14 Dec 2010 01:48

Thank you all. I saw a Therapist today and I will do this! For anyone going through the same thing, I feel for you deeply! I may have lost a lot going through this, but I sure did learn the more valuable things in my life. No one should have to suffer from this, and if you are, please see a therapist at least. I am so glad I found this site, it has helped me a lot and yeah I still feel nervous, but it wont last forever. I like to think that bad things happen for a good reason.

Alene Y 14 Dec 2010 03:19

Hi lovingmother,
That is great news! I'm so glad we have been able to help, and that you are seeing a therapist to conquer your fear. Several of our regular posters in the forums have been there, and they do sometimes start to feel the fear again, but we haven't had anyone who relapsed completely. Come back and talk to us any time you like. We'll be here to help.

lovingmotherof3 (guest) 18 Dec 2010 20:57

Thanks
I now realize that you can't beleive what you hear, just because it's on TV doesn't mean it's real. Now the journey to conquer my upcoming goals in my life for me and my kids.